Thursday, July 1, 2010

Forgive Others

They said "forgive your enemies but never forget their names" new statement nowadays. I think because they want to be aware in the future that this person or these people hurt me in the past but you already forgive them. What do you think someone will says that?

People hurt other people whether intentionally or not . It's a fact of life. Grasping forces to hurt you to carry a load that your body, especially your heart, was not designed to handle the emotion. It robs you of energy that could be used for positive things such as consolidation of your relationship, you and your partner.

Forgiveness is a gift - no strings attached, regardless of whether the offender is remorseful or has remorse. This is not a validation of the action or to excuse the wrongdoer. It means a lot fully to understand what was injured and choose to free the offending person despite it. This is something you can do fully only through God, because He already did so freely to you.