Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Gossip, Gossip where do you get yours?

Girls, what do you get when you are into gossip? You talking behind the back of a person, and telling things that are not true or not proven that she or he is like that. Almost all the rumors are lied or exaggerated, distorted versions of truth. Usually, the gossip that talk about things that never happened, jumping to false conclusions interpretations of the actions, or something quote was not said. These falsehoods or half-truths can be harmful to someone's reputation as a false picture of the true personality of the victim.

Without a finger pointing at his face, whispered about is like being falsely accused. It can lead to very painful emotions such as:

• Loss of confidence among people who have always had great respect for others.
• Pain and confusion about being a victim, for reasons one usually does not know or understand these feelings.
• A feeling of helplessness because rumormongers always done behind the person, and the roots of gossip are often difficult to trace.
• Can be gossip abo
ut at least irritating and frustrating, at best, can make someone think of leaving their loved ones or even end your life!
• Very often, even after a rumor has been debunked, the damage is already done.

What hurts more is that gossip can ruined friendship between you and your best friend or with your friends.

Why there is gossiping?

Gossip appears when someone you had conflict with. These are the common reasons:

• Revenge - if someone wants to get back to you.
• Envy - maybe because they don't have what you have and that is why they keep on gossiping you.
• Lack of Self-esteem - creating issues to you, because they don't have the attention that you has.